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The overall reputation of Roommates.com is mixed, with a significant divide in customer experiences. Positive feedback highlights the platform's effectiveness in matching users with quality roommates, particularly for those who have utilized the service over the years. However, numerous complaints emphasize persistent issues with spam and scams, leading to frustration over unread messages and poor customer support. Many users express disappointment with the site's matching algorithm and the perceived lack of genuine interactions, suggesting a need for improved moderation and communication features to enhance user experience and trust.
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My roomie moved in today. He's career navy and was on a humanitarian mission in a tiny island nation north of Australia - sleeping in a converted storage container. He found my ad and for the last couple of months, we kept in touch. He's as nice and friendly as I expected. Thank You to Roommate.com. I've now posted my larger bedroom on here.
5 days and not a single request. Except of course for the constant upgrade pitch. I contacted them and have had no response. Obviously they only want the monthly fee. Stay away.
I have actually had better luck with craigslist and that place is full of scammers but at least, they occasionally have a response that is a real person who is actually looking for a room in my city and at least CL is free. I had one person from roommate.com contact me saying that they were interested in the room but they asked for more "verification" (Roommates.com has different levels of verification) I had to pay $2.99 to roommates.com to TRY to verify my ID and roommates.com rejected my verification and then asked for my social security number as an alternate way to "verify" my identity?! WTF! Worst case, they (or some hackers?) are trying to steal my identity. Best case (?), the roommates.com website sucks and it now looks like I failed verification? Either way, I have had several "matches" say that they refuse to pay the cost to read my post and so, it is is total waste of time to try to communicate. Now, I feel that my security/privacy/identity could be vulnerable to theft. This is an awful "service"... what a waste of almost $30 for two months and what a stressful thing to worry about now that I put my personal information at risk by trying to "verify" with roommates.com. Grrrrrr. I felt like they were legitimate but now, I think I made a huge mistake. It sure seems like a SCAM to me. (UPDATE: They did refund my money after I reported the problem to my bank and asked them for a refund. They insisted that they are not a scam and paid the refund, in full.) Still, what's up with charging people to "verify" their ID? And please stop saying that the service is free if communication can't be accessed without paying. It is more honest to say UPFRONT that you can post a profile for free and pay to access matches, if you decide to use the service.
Hello,
We are sorry you are not happy with the site and we assure you that Roommates.com is not a scam and your personal information is not at risk.
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All of your information is sent securely through a third party system and we do not store or have the ability to view it. We also allow up to 2 attempts with one purchase in case the first attempt fails. The good news is that you don't have to utilize this feature in order to find a great roommate on Roommates.com and we offer several other great ways to verify your account (email, phone number, and Facebook).
We have assisted countless members in finding the perfect roommate. Obviously we would love to see everyone who uses Roommates.com be successful in their search for a roommate. However, we do realize that is not always the case as the process of finding a roommate can be difficult.
If you are still looking and would be willing to give us another try, we would be happy to provide some tips to help you make the most out of Roommates.com and would like the opportunity to assist you in finding a roommate. Please contact us at support@roommates.com.
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Thank you for giving us a try and we hope to hear from you soon!
Roommates.com Support
Man thats frustrating... let me walk you through what your experience will be like offering a room:
You enter all your information, data that they mine on you, your home, your pictures, your location, your hobbies, your interests, your gender, your preferences, etc. Then you reach out to people, and when someone responds, you have to PAY to see the response, and guess what... it could be a "no thanks."
They refer to it as Upgrading to VIP to see messages, but free to do mostly everything else up till that point... real bait-and-switch there in my opinion. Now I'm out a couple bucks, and some bastards Zuckerberg'd me for my private information. Stay away from this site unless you have a nice place, in a large city with lots of demand. Then it might be worth it. Good luck.
Hello,
It was not our intention to mislead you in regards to the memberships. You are able to include your contact information in the free messages that you send to other members so that only one of you have to pay for an upgrade to be able to contact one another outside of the website, so there are ways to find a roommate using the free portion of the site.
Hopefully you give us another try. If you have additional questions on how the site works please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
They allow you to sign up for free and don't tell you that you can't read correspondence unless you pay them. While I could afford it, I will not give them money now. I feel scammed.
Hello,
It was not our intention to mislead you regarding the membership options. You can post your profile, see others profiles, and send messages to other members all for free. You even have the option to include your contact information in the messages you send if you wish, so that only one member would need to pay for a membership in order to contact each other outside of the website.
If you have additional questions about how to utilize the free portion of the website please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
Awesome website, clean. Stellar customer service! Easy to use site. Good prices. Website functions perfect. No issues at all. I always use their services if I need a roommate or am looking for a place to rent.
I paid from $20-$30 least 4 times, and to say the least, I don't have very good experience with this. I feel they some how discriminate and so that you will not reach others. I will write more on this another time. But really, my experience with this for more than a year doesn't allow me to recommend it.
Hello,
It's unfortunate you didn't have a good experience on the site. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service that matches you with other members according to the preferences that you pick for your profile which you can adjust at anytime. You also have the option to send free messages to anyone on the site if you would like. Once you start receiving replies to your messages we do require that you pay for a membership to open and read your messages, but you do have the option to include your contact information in your free sent messages so only one of you has to upgrade.
If you would like to give us another try please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
I have used roommate. Com for several years. It is a little more expensive then other sites but in the scheme of renting, it is not ridiculous. I have sent many messages that have gone unanswered. I assume the receiver did not want to pay to get the message. I feel like if they will not pay to receive messages one they're not very serious about finding a place to live and two if they won't pay $15 to help themselves find a place will they pay the rent repeatedly on time. I have been successful using this site. I do wish it had a cheaper annual fee that you could use instead of the shorter more expensive ones.
They have people sending fake messages just so that you subscribe then they wait until your suscription is over to send a message so that you have to keep paying to see the messages.
Pretty much just a scam site, stay away.
Hello,
Roommates.com is not a scam site and has helped countless people find roommates. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service, similar to posting an add in a newspaper, so you do have to be careful and do your homework on the people you choose to interact with outside of the website.
We do not control who sends you a message and who doesn't. You do have the option to include your contact information in the free messages that you are able to send to other members and then only one person would have to pay for a membership to contact each other outside of the website.
If you would like to try us again please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to give you some tips on how to get the most out of the free portion of the site.
Roommates.com Support
Paid the $10 to get access to potential renters and every time I tried to contact a renter it would ask me to pay again. Transaction is now in dispute with PayPal.
Hello,
Please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to get the payment issue with your account resolved.
Roommates.com Support
Don't do it. You sign up, they send you fake messages you can't check until you start paying so it looks free but it's not.
Hello,
Roommates.com is a bulletin board service. You can post your profile and photos for free and send messages to other members for free. You can even put your contact information in your outgoing messages if you would like. You do have to purchase a membership in order to read incoming messages from other members but if you put your contact information in your messages then only one of you would need to upgrade in order to communicate outside of the website.
If you are still looking for a roommate and would like to give us another try, please contact us at support@roommates.com and we can give you some tips on how to get the most out of the free portion of the website.
Hope to hear from you soon!
Roommates.com Support
A total scam. I paid $10. And did not receive a real person. Where do you find good roommates nowadays?!?!?!
Hello,
Thank you for giving Roommates.com a try and I am sorry to hear you did not receive more valid responses. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so members on the site will vary depending on who is looking for a place and in what location. We're doing all we can to stop the scammers. Our Staff performs daily scam searches on the site looking for and banning any scam accounts we find. Please contact us at support@roommates.com for a refund.
Roommates.com Support.
I just wanted to write this review to express my frustrations with this website. I paid to receive my first message (which I thought was odd) and that turned out to be a "fake person".
The next 3-4 messages I received were either deleted because they were inappropriate or "they couldn't find the message". Seriously if this company is going to make people pay to receive messages, they should invest more time in assisting people find decent roommates. Waste of time and money. Better off using Facebook than this site to find roommates. Seems like they ONLY care about making money.
Hello,
It's unfortunate you haven't had any luck using the site yet. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so those using the site can vary daily.
The site does remove messages that are sent from fraudulent accounts that are found on the site to keep their members safe.
If you contact customer support at support@roommates.com they will be happy to refund your charge the messages you received were not there or not valid when you paid for a membership.
If you would like to give us another try we would love to give you some tips on how to make the most out of your membership.
Thank you,
Roommates.com Support
Almost everybody is just trying to take your money DONT TRUST ANYBODY AND DONT WASTE YOUR TIME AND MONEY THIS APP IS TRASH
If you are looking to rent a room, stay away from the address above. The Owners mother lives in the house and is a control freak. There were 5 women that lived in the house and the mother tried to control our lives, from what we did to what we are allowed to eat in the house. She constantly asked where we were going, what time we were going to be back and if you refuse to do anything she asks of you, you will be evicted. This happen to me and two of the other girls that lived there. BE WARE! Don't let this happen to you.
Hello,
I am very sorry to hear about the experience you have had with this roommate situation. I can't imagine how that must have been.
We hope you have found a new place that you can call home.
If you have any further questions, please don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com. We wish you all the best moving forward and that you find a safe, comfortable and convenient living situation.
Roommates.com Support
Joined as a VIP out of desperation, only to receive responses from idiots who felt the need to cuss me out and call me "ugly as whore" completely unprovoked. I reported them and zero action was taken. "Matches" and "search results" always include numerous people NOT EVEN LOOKING IN THE AREA OF MY LISTING! Also with budget well below the prices in my area with no way of filtering them out of results! This site is a SCAM!
Hello,
Unfortunately, sometimes people are not on their best behavior when they are sending messages online. So we make it easy to report them or not have to interact with them anymore. There is an option to block members on the left side of your messages to keep them from contacting you.
We do program some "cushion" into our algorithms to allow profiles to be matched who we think might still be a great match overall, but might not necessarily match all preferences precisely.
Members who need a room can specify up to 3 city/state locations, with a surrounding radius around each one. As long as your home falls within one of the radiuses the member has selected they can appear as a match. We allow each member the ability to select their own radius based on what they individually feel is appropriate for their needs.
If you are still looking for a roommate hopefully you will give us another try. We would be happy to give you some tips on how to make the most out of your membership. You can contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
My husband and I had never done anything like this before and saw this site had good reviews so we gave it a try.
At first they seemed good. We got a few calls, one or two people came out to see the room. But the longer we were on, the less action we got. I also noticed I was seeing the same people looking for a room for months at a time.
The kicker for me is that in the last 6 weeks I noticed people being removed from my matches only to come back on a few days later as a match.
I am currently working with a realtor at full price to rent my room. We had no choice, this sight just did not work.
Hello,
Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so the amount of response will vary depending on who is looking in your area.
If members unhide their profile, change their status or reactivate their account they will show up in your matches again.
It's unfortunate you didn't have any luck finding a roommate on our site, but if you want to try us again we can give you some helpful tips on how to get the most out of your membership by contacting us at support@roommates.com. Hope to hear from you soon!
Roommates.com Support
I've used the site in the past and it worked well. This time, they took my money, sent me one email with matches and will not even let me sign in. I've been trying to cancel and I can't. I finally sent an email to email that sent the matches, and I haven't heard back. I'm going to have to report them as fraudulent. This is too bad because they were a decent site in the past.
Hello,
Roommates.com is not a scam. We are a bulletin board service for you to contact people that are looking for or renting rooms.
I'm sorry you are having trouble with the site. Please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to get your account worked out.
Roommates.com Support
I've used Roommates.com 3-5 times in past years and up until now (2019) it was fine. But they've changed it and severely watered down the search criteria. Aside from what I say in my profile, if I simply want to conduct a search on my own, I cannot narrow it down to "female" for example nor can I narrow it down to a particular dollar amount for the rent or a particular age range. If I'd known about these changes, I never would have spent the $20 this time. Also, when I play the role of someone looking for a room (I am offering a room) and do a search that SHOULD turn up my posting, it does not show up!
Hello,,
It's unfortunate the site hasn't worked out for you this time. We do appreciate your comments and they will be taken into consideration for future site improvements. As with all new updates there are some bugs to work out. People come and go on a daily basis so hopefully you will get some matches soon that will work out for a roommate.
If you have additional questions on how the new site works please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to assist you.
Roommates.com Support
who tf do they think they are charging any money. there are several other free sites with way higher chance of getting a response. Stay away from this site
Hello,
A Roommates.com Basic Membership always has and always will be free. But there are indeed many benefits to upgrading your membership status.
We created Roommates.com to be as budget-friendly as possible, which is why we allow you to send messages, review profiles, etc without having to upgrade. But like with most sites, we do have premium features that make using the site more successful. Many users save money by waiting until they receive a response or get a message and upgrading at that time while choosing the upgrade plan that best fits their needs.
If you choose to give our site another try we can give you some listing tips by contacting us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support
Answer: Yeah, if you are looking for crazy drunk high on drugs kind of people and it doesn't matter if you are male or female, after a couple of weeks, if that, they also get this crazy idea that they own you and can control your every thought move and somehow make themselves believe they are not renting a room, but using the web site to find a wife or husband type without the vows! This is not just based on one incident, but an average of 8 years of using the site on both sides. First I was renting rooms and the same applies and then I needed to rent a room which the same description applies. But understand, it is an web site for others to use. The users are the problem, not the site. It is amazing what I have experienced with all of what I said. I would think of another solution if I were you unless you want to learn as I did and I don't think it is a good idea. I would not write this if I did not know it all to well to be 1000% TRUE! I do not understand what these type of people are doing? Maybe they are a little to lonely or because you are renting a room or you need to rent a room that you do not have your own life and therefore they can take advantage of your sanity. I'm not sure, but I sure have had enough of these people for the past eight years that I have moved on to other roommate sites. Guess What? The same thing! Sorry, wish I could give a thumbs up, but No Can Do! Good luck
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Answer: Please contact our customer support team at support@roommates.com for assistance with your account.
Answer: Hello, We are an online bulletin board service. Please go to roommates.com website to fill out a profile to see who matches your preferences. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, Sorry you are having a hard time uploading your photos. Please go to https://help.roommates.com/article/31-upload-edit-photos for step-by-step instructions on how to upload your photos. If you still have trouble getting them to post, please contact our customer service at support@roommates.com and they will be happy to assist you. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Identity verification is $2.99 and is helpful for other members to know you are legitimate, but it is not required to use the site. If you have additional questions don't hesitate to contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, The ID verification is optional. You can verify your email, phone number, facebook, and identity. Other members are able to see what you have verified and some members feel more comfortable with members that have verified their identity, but again the verifications are option except for your email. If you have additional questions about your account please contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, Please check your preferences to make sure your age limit for who you want to room with is correct. Also, if a member chooses the option of 'I prefer not to say' when it asks their age then it could still match them with you on your other preferences. If you need further assistance with this please contact us at support@roommates.com and we will be happy to help you with your account. Roommates.com Support
Answer: Hello, If your account has been inactive for more than 30 days it will deactivate. You can choose to HIde your profile and make sure you login every 30 days to keep it active if you would like. If you have additional questions about your account please contact us at support@roommates.com. Roommates.com Support
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Hello,
It's unfortunate that you have not had any luck finding a roommate on the site. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service and matches you with others on the site with similar preferences. Ideally there are members on the site looking for the same thing you are in the same area, but that is not always the case.
We created Roommates.com to be as budget-friendly as possible, which is why we allow you to send messages, review profiles, etc without having to upgrade. But with most sites, we do have premium features that make using the site more successful. Many users save money by waiting until they receive a response or get a message and then upgrading at that time while choosing the upgrade plan that best fits their needs. You also have the option to include your contact information in your messages if you would like so that only one party has to pay for an upgrade to be able to communicate outside of the website.
Hopefully you find a match for what you are looking for soon.
If you have additional questions or would like some tips on how to get the most out of the site please contact us at support@roommates.com.
Roommates.com Support