Stop judging..he or she WILL not be your ex...flee if she or he reminds you...and focus on your needs are matiching. Stick to the words of your Profile...flee. Thats how you get in trouble.
if you find that someone is not the greatest in looks...dont hate..you may not look good to them either. Talk with all people, hear their stories . you might learn a thing or 2 about your selfish spirit which has many faces. Be sweet and polite to all. They may help you find your blessing. Stay 100 always