AsianDateReviews 1,003

Although some of the women may be genuine, most of them are hired by the company to string you along and spend your money. I know this because I chatted with at least 3 young ladies there who I later managed to get to chat on QQ, the Chinese equivalent of Yahoo. While on QQ, they admitted to me that most of the ladies are scammers and that they themselves had strung along a large number of men to let them to spend money without actual hope of meeting the girls and marrying them.

The ladies all access the service from the agency computers, which all have web cams. Therefore you should use the cam share to make sure you are chatting with the lady described in the profile. If you chat with a lady who says she doesn't have video, it is not true. What it means is that the lady with whom you are chatting is NOT the lady on the profile but a different one.

A final note. One reviewer stated that this site is for professional ladies. But it is not possible for a 20-year old, even in China, to be an actual doctor or lawyer. So the professions listed reveal that the ladies are fake. And when the address bar of your browser says "Beautiful Thai lady..." and the profile describes a Chinese lady from Beijing, then you should realize you are being played!

If you want to have some sex chat with a supposedly beautiful Chinese woman, go ahead. If you want to find an actual mate, there are better sites out there.

I've been hearing a lot about this site lately and decided to give it a go. The free membership came with a bonus offer of 40 minutes free live chat, so that's a good start. There seem to be thousands of women on the site, some more attractive than others, some obviously fake profiles too, but most of them seem ok. I guess all of them want to look their best, hence the professionally taken photographs. Anyway, nothing to complain about yet, definitely not a scam.

I don't think asiandate.com is a scam website just because they charge money for their services. There seem to be a lot of guys out there who thought they could find a date/girlfriend/wife the day they joined up, but anyone with a brain knows that it's not that simple. Sometimes it can take months to get to know someone properly and even then it can turn our that you're not suitable for each other when you finally meet, that's just life and you shouldn't blame anyone for it.

I was a bit suspicious at first because most of the women you see in the ads are drop dead gorgeous and it seemed like only beautiful women were allowed to join the site. I've been a member of Asiandate.com for about a year now and can say that if you take time to look around, you will find those women too who have genuine photos and who are really looking for love. Don't get discouraged if the first woman you contact isn't right for you, it's just like in traditional dating - finding a perfect match can take time!

%100 scam. The fact that it's either 5 stars (company people), or 1 star (real people) proves that. After this comment it will probably change. Site says my profile is not visible to the girls (and that I should pay), still 10 gorgeous girls mailing me. I go online to verify the scam. My 1st, and last chat with (probably a man) someone there: I ask "her" how did she see my profile, she says "no chat, go now". Girls e-mailing me before? My profile was EMPTY before it was invisible due to inactivity! Stop those dumb dreams, no dream girl will f... you (find you) meeting on a site. Go workout, dress nice, and GET OUT!

%100 scam. The fact that it's either 5 stars (company people), or 1 star shows that. Site says my profile is not visible to the girls (and that I should pay), still 10 gorgeous girls mailing me. I go online to verify the scam. My 1st, and last chat with (probably a man) someone there: I ask "her" how did she see my profile, she says "no chat, go now". Girls e-mailing me before? My profile was EMPTY before it was invisible due to inactivity! Stop those dumb dreams, no dream girl will f... you (find you) meeting on a site. Go workout, dress nice, and GET OUT!

This site is a total fraud. Don't get pulled in. I've been on the site for 7 months and spent thousands of dollars screening dozens of women from all over China. These women are employed of the website company. There job is to tell you everything you want to here as long as you keep buying credits to open and receive letters. I screened over 500 women and wrote letters to 29 seriously. None of these women are for real. I'm warning you to not get sucked in. I give this site a zero. When I come back to tell you more tomorrow, I will tell you about my 3 weeks in China and my attempt to meet 5 of the 6 women I flew to China to meet. I went to 6 cities to meet these women. The worst experience you can imagine. More later. Mr. Q...

Hot chicks and top quality dating services! I get that some people are not happy with the quality of the services they get, but I don't really see a problem with that. It can take time to find a dating site you want to join, it took me a couple of months to find a website that I could trust. AsianDate.com is definitely not for everyone, but I can't complain at the moment. The girl I've been chatting to is absolutely beautiful and I can't wait to meet her in real life. Keep looking if you haven't found the girl who's truly interested in you.

The way I see it, if you don't have the money to spend, don't register on their site. Simple as that. The website seems to be built up as an "exclusive" dating service for professionals and entrepreneurs and if you're not in that category, don't bother. Nowhere on their site do they promise free services or that they guarantee a match for anyone who signs up, so I don't really understand why people choose to live out their frustration on the web.

Bottom line, they are just luring men to spend money on messages and live chat. If there are any real, sincere women on this site, it will be virtually impossible to form a realtionship with them.

If you have already made the mistake of buying credits, you can have some nice, intelligent conversations in live chat. You can see some of them live on webcam, and they will respond to commands so you know they are really live, not pre-recorded (they seem to find this amusing.) Just realize you have no chance of meeting them.

It is prohibitively expensive to communicate on the site long enough to get to know a woman. You could not exchange the information necessary to arrange a visit, unless arranged by the site. The site is extreme in blocking any attempt to get direct communication. They even block mentioning Facebook, Google, etc, let alone giving an email address -- even when I tried posting one backwards! This implies an actual person censoring the communication, not just a computer.

Reasons for doubting the women are real: 1. The majority of these women have large breasts -- not consistent with Asian bodies. The ones that do not have obviously large bosoms are photographed to make their breast size unclear. If you select to put responses or searches in order of "Beautiful Ladies", it equates to larger breasted women first. Obviously the site is catering to what they think every Western man wants. (If a man were looking for women with large breasts, why would he be on an Asian dating site to begin with?) 2. You will often get many letters from the same woman, even though you have not read and responded to any of their previous letters. What attractive woman is going to keep messaging you when you don't respond? 3. You will get letters saying they like your profile or picture, even when you have not yet put anything on your profile.

I dismiss the arguments about it being unreasonable for attractive young women to be interested in older men. The concept of the "dirty old man" and prejudice against age differences in couples are largely absent in Asia. Westerners are largely considered tall, handsome and rich, more faithful than Asian men. But this is not one of the places to find Asian women.

I believe my experience with this site will motivate someone to try out there services I joined the site some month ago and the luckiest thing I can brag about is getting a soul mate. I chatted with her for some months and decided to facilitate her to join me so asiandate.com gave me the necessary support and she managed to visit ever since that time I just could not stay a day without her I feel so lucky to have benefited and thats why the whole world must know.