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La-date Reviews Summary

The company has garnered a mixed reputation among its users, with notable strengths in the quality of interactions and user experience on the platform. Many customers appreciate the availability of free credits and the effective matchmaking features, which enhance the overall engagement. However, significant concerns arise regarding the pricing structure, as users feel the costs for communication are excessive, particularly for men, creating barriers to forming genuine connections. Additionally, frustrations about limited geographical matches and the inability to exchange personal contact information further detract from user satisfaction, indicating a need for adjustments to improve accessibility and foster deeper relationships.

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Canada
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The sense of reality is captivating. It feels like you're truly connecting with people, not just browsing through profiles or fake interactions. Every conversation feels genuine and grounded.

Date of experience: January 24, 2025
SupportTeam A. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Sylas,

Thanks for your thoughtful review! It’s amazing to hear that the platform feels so genuine for you. We’re thrilled you’re enjoying those real, grounded connections—hope they continue to grow!

Warm regards,
Ava from La-date

New York
1 review
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I really liked the user-friendly design and the search filters. The women here are active, and conversations don't stick to standard phrases.

Date of experience: January 20, 2025
SupportTeam A. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Laurence,

Thanks for the feedback! We’re glad you’re enjoying the design and features—it’s great to hear they’re helping you connect with such active and engaging people. Hope it stays this way for you!

Kind regards,
Ava from La-date

Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I chatted with many people and almost gave up at one point. But then I messaged a girl who didn't just reply -she immediately hooked me with her humor. Now we text every day.

Date of experience: January 19, 2025
SupportTeam A. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Daryl,

That’s such a great story—thanks for sharing! It’s amazing how one conversation can turn everything around. We hope the humor and connection keep making your days brighter!

Warm regards,
Ava from La-date

Massachusetts
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The women here are genuinely open to communication, and you can feel it from the first messages. There's no sense of templates or pre written responses.

Date of experience: January 22, 2025
SupportTeam A. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Albert,

Thanks for sharing your experience! It’s awesome to hear the conversations feel so natural and engaging right from the start. We’re glad the platform is working so well for you!

Take care,
Ava from La-date

California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I've been in the dating game for a while, and this site pleasantly surprised me. Simple interface, minimal spam, real photos.

Date of experience: January 22, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Ronald,

Thank you for your kind words! We’re thrilled to hear the platform has been a pleasant surprise for you. It’s great to know you’re enjoying the simple interface and genuine experience.

Cheers,
Ava from La-date

Utah
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Honesty is evident here. You can feel it in the conversations, where people are genuine and open, creating an atmosphere of trust and authenticity.

Date of experience: January 21, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Garett,

We love hearing this! It’s great to know you’re finding the community so genuine and welcoming—it’s exactly what we aim for. Thanks for sharing your experience!

Cheers,
Ava from La-date

New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I wouldn't say I was looking for anything specific I just like to chat. This site has the perfect audience for that. Nobody tries to act cooler than they are, people speak simply and to the point. So far, I can say I've gotten everything I was looking for. It ticks all the boxes for me.

Date of experience: January 20, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Sean,

Thanks for sharing this! It’s awesome to hear you’re enjoying the vibe and finding exactly what you were looking for. We’re glad the platform feels like a great fit for you.

Best wishes,
Ava from La-date

Virginia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Every new conversations feels like a journey into another world. People are so different, with unique thoughts, stories, and perspectives. You don't even have to agree with them to gain something valuable. It's just nice to listen and learn.

Date of experience: January 13, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Douglas,

Your review really resonates with us—thank you for sharing it! It’s incredible how a single conversation can open up new perspectives, and we’re thrilled that you’re finding value in each one. Wishing you many more meaningful moments on the platform!

Warm regards,
Ava from La-date

Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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No bots, real, genuine replies
January 18, 2025

On many sites, you often find bots hiding behind beautiful profiles. Here, it's the opposite. Every message feels genuine, and each profile seems to be written by a real person. I've messaged many people and always received authentic, unscripted replies. That's compelling.

Date of experience: January 18, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Homer,

Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s amazing to hear how much you appreciate the authenticity on our platform. Real connections and genuine chats are what we strive for, and we’re so happy you’re enjoying that. Here’s to more great conversations ahead!

Best wishes,
Ava from La-date

New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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No strange chats with bots, every conversation feels alive and engaging. It's refreshing to connect with real people, making each exchange feel meaningful and authentic.

Date of experience: January 17, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Viktor,

We’re so glad to hear that your chats feel real and meaningful! It’s feedback like yours that motivates us to keep creating a space for authentic connections.

Cheers,
Ava from La-date

Virginia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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It's clear that this site is well-thought-out. The people are real, no suspicious messages, and the interface is straightforward. I haven't come across a platform this well-designed in a long time. It's a great resource for spending time chatting. I appreciate when effort is put into both the site and its content.

Date of experience: January 9, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Dane,

Thanks so much for your thoughtful feedback! We’re thrilled you’re enjoying the platform and finding it both genuine and easy to use. We’ll keep working hard to keep it that way!

Best wishes,
Ava from La-date

New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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We both love creating projects from building something new to discussing ways to better organize life. Our conversations are always productive, and I can already feel how much her advice is changing my life.

Date of experience: January 10, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Walter,

It’s amazing to hear how inspiring and productive your conversations have been! We’re so happy to know you’re finding such meaningful connections on the platform.

Take care,
Ava from La-date

Pennsylvania
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Scam
January 16, 2025

See attached communication with a user
It's important that this site gets taken down.
I always knew it was a scam
Just think about it

Date of experience: January 16, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Skippy,

We take all complaints seriously and do our best to address any issues. Transparency and creating meaningful connections are at the heart of our platform. To ensure a safe experience, we use advanced security algorithms and have a dedicated moderation team to prevent fraud. If you suspect any fraudulent activity, please report it to us at support@la-date.com or directly report the user’s profile. Our team will investigate thoroughly and keep you updated on the outcome.

Kind regards,
Ava from La-date

South Carolina
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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This is the second dating site I've visited and although I first found it pleasant, I then found that most women like to send requests for virtual gifts, which are often priced as much as the real thing. Again. Like other sites, the same people you saw on one site now here, different name perhaps, same photos and different bio. Most of these women are on multiple sites and doing everything they can to encourage you to continue a relationship which could get costly if you don't watch what you click. Message 10 credits, open more than one photo, 10 more for each, Exlusive mail 50 credits. In the end the money just flies away. Save you time and money

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Date of experience: January 8, 2025
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
12 months ago

Hi Nick,

Thank you for sharing your detailed experience with us. We’re sorry to hear that your time on the platform didn’t meet your expectations. Your feedback is valuable, and we take it seriously as we work to improve the experience for all users.

Our credit system is designed to allow users to access premium features based on their preferences, but we understand your concern about the costs adding up. We aim to maintain transparency, and we encourage users to explore options that work best for them.

As for your concerns about profiles, our platform strives to provide every member with a trustworthy and secure online communication environment where honesty and transparency are paramount. We ensure that our members adhere to the terms and conditions of our product and carefully investigate every complaint we receive. We also support our community by providing a mechanism to report profiles that violate the rules, reinforcing our commitment to upholding standards of integrity and safety. If you come across any profiles that seem unusual, please let us know at support@la-date.com so we can look into it further.

Thank you again for your feedback. If you’d like to share more details or need assistance, our team is here to help.

Kind regards,
Ava from La-date

Colorado
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Complete scam
October 24, 2024

None of these women will communicate with you outside of this site. All communication costs credits. This is purely a scam. I have been a member off and on for over a year. Whether or not these
Women are bots, or employees of the site, or paid a percentage, whatever is unclear to me. There is obviously some incentive for the women to keep the men buying credits and only correspond on the site. Someone needs to start a class action lawsuitq against these thieves. I think the people who own this site are some of the most dishonest people in the planet. This should be illegal.

Date of experience: October 24, 2024
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Hi Darren,

Thank you for sharing your experience. We take your concerns seriously and want to clarify some points. On La-date, our platform is designed to ensure secure and quality interactions, which is why communication remains within the platform and requires credits. This approach is intended to create a safe environment for users and to help maintain the quality of our services.

Incentives are not provided to users or employees to keep conversations within the site; rather, the credit system supports the operation and integrity of our platform. We understand that you may have expected different communication options, and we apologize if this was unclear.

For further assistance or a detailed review of your concerns, please reach out to us at support@la-date.com. We are here to listen and provide clarity where needed.

Best regards,
Ava from La-date Support Team

Missouri
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Message
October 14, 2024

I sent several message regards to my account, never received a reply so Im done with this site, also these women will not video chat just to go to show you, maybe their real or not, why would you not want to video chat, need to make sure they are for real then again they still might be fake, who knows

Date of experience: October 14, 2024
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Hello Lee,

We’re sorry to hear about your experience and any missed responses from our support team. Our goal is to address all inquiries promptly, and we’d like to look into why your messages went unanswered. Please contact us at support@la-date.com so we can assist you directly.

Regarding video chat, we understand that this feature would offer additional reassurance about authenticity. Our platform currently focuses on text-based interactions for privacy and security, but we’re always working on ways to improve and welcome your feedback.

Thank you for bringing these points to our attention. We’re here to support you in any way we can.

Kind regards,
Ava from La-date Support Team

Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Scam for sure
August 31, 2024

Too many photoshop pictures, high rates per credit/min. Also overwhelming message, custormer service confirmed onve a while send fake message to persude keep chatting and spent credits -star watch out

Date of experience: August 31, 2024
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Dear Florida,

Our site places great emphasis on the member experience and we address each complaint individually to resolve all issues promptly. We have a strict policy against fraud and deception and take proactive measures to enforce the terms of our platform.

If you ever come across a situation that raises suspicion, please do not hesitate to contact us at support@la-date.com. We will investigate your concerns thoroughly with our relevant departments.

Best regards,
La-date Customer Support

Washington
1 review
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Another Scam
August 30, 2024

Pretty woman but even after a fair amount of time, try and get their contact information. Customer support said with each lady that the ladies rejected giving their information. Each lady says she didn't and on and on it goes. Then support says it was up to the lady agency to approve contact information. The Capper was when I saw the same lady on a different site that I had been chatting with for a long time, and she did not know who I was on the other site. They are fake and not real people or at least most of them. This is a waste of time and a total scam. Real sites act in a real way. Fake site play the same old game.

Date of experience: August 30, 2024
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Dear User,

Trust and authenticity are fundamental values in our community. You can rest assured that the profiles of our users are verified to maintain the integrity of our platform. If you ever have any doubts about the identity of your pen pal, please contact us immediately at support@la-date.com. We're here to make sure your experience is genuine and safe.

Best regards,
La-date Customer Support

Australia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I paid for this site too and all of a sudden I was blocked and then later suspended- do not go to this site it's a group of men and women playing around just read what the others write back to you.

Date of experience: July 18, 2024
Support Team L. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Dear Laila,

Thanks for letting us know about your experience. We're sorry that you were inconvenienced.
So that we can deal with the matter efficiently, please send us an email to support@la-date.com.

Best regards,
La-date Customer Support

Georgia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I'm on another site (I won't say which) who has some of the same women, just for grins, I started chatting with the women who I chat with on the other site, they didn't know me. Thus, I told the women on the other site; "hey somebody stole your Identity". They asked for a screenshot, but didn't seem too surprised. I suspect the same company own multiple sites like this and use multiple people to claiming to be these women, that why they're almost always online. Scam City.

Date of experience: May 26, 2024
Support Team E. — La-date Rep
over a year old

Dear Leroy,

Thank you for bringing this to our attention. We understand your concerns and appreciate your diligence in verifying the authenticity of the profiles you interact with.

We take the integrity of our platform seriously and strive to ensure all profiles are genuine. However, if you suspect any misuse of identities or have encountered duplicate profiles across different sites, we strongly encourage you to report these instances directly to our support team at support@la-date.com. Providing screenshots or additional details can help us investigate and take appropriate action.

Our goal is to create a safe and trustworthy environment for all users, and your feedback is invaluable in helping us achieve this. We are committed to improving our services and addressing any issues promptly.

Thank you for your patience and understanding as we work to resolve this matter.

Best regards,
La-date Customer Support

From the business

La-date is an online dating platform designed for those who believe that connection starts with an open heart and a curious mind. Whether you’re just starting out or rediscovering your romantic side, La-date offers a warm, welcoming space for thoughtful, emotionally grounded communication.

Each message on the platform is an invitation to connect with someone who values sincerity, openness, and gentle conversation. You’ll find people who appreciate emotional depth and enjoy taking the time to get to know someone through meaningful dialogue.

The experience is designed to feel natural and free from pressure. You can share your perspective, reflect on the moment, or simply enjoy the chance to be heard and seen. And along the way, you might just experience the quiet surprise of discovering something special when you least expect it.

La-date encourages emotionally safe, intentional interaction—perfect for those who want their next chapter to be rooted in presence, kindne...